Swimming in a sea of leadership books, blogs, and programs, I’m frankly quite conflicted about what exactly is leadership. Sure there are a ton of aspects to developing and being a leader: skills, competency, character, knowledge, attitude, chemistry, discipline, passion, vision, relating, motivating, persuading, deciding, planning, ad nauseum. In the pithy words of John Maxwell, “Leadership is influence, nothing more, nothing less.” Very good. Everyone has influence. Everyone can impact and influence another person or even a group of people, for good or for bad. But does…