Manolo says, here is the Manolo’s latest column for the Express of the Washington Post. Dear Manolo, In three weeks, I’m turning 40 years old. Oddly, I’m not yet upset about passing this major milestone. although, I am worried that it’ll feel bad on the big day itself. To forestall that can you please suggest some party shoes for the big day. My husband is planning a evening dinner with friends at a nice restaurant, so something that will go with my little black dress. Stephanie Manolo says, do not despair, it is true what everyone is saying, 40 is the new 36 and three-quarters!